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Mellisa Chikuti, the widow of late musician Tatenda Pinjisi, has issued a public plea, stating she is being persistently approached by men posing as benefactors who ultimately seek sexual relationships with her.

This distressing pattern began soon after the tragic death of her husband, who died in a road accident on April 10 while traveling to a show in Kadoma.

Chikuti explained that these unwelcome advances started during the rawest period of her family’s grief.

She described the profound difficulty of navigating widowhood while protecting herself from exploitation, stating, “We face a lot of challenges as widows, I am still mourning and my children are also still mourning.” She emphasized the disconnect between her needs and the intentions of these men, adding, “When you see me drowning in tears, as I mourn, I will be appealing for your genuine help.”

Detailing the manipulative tactics employed, Chikuti said that offers of assistance often quickly devolve into romantic propositions.

She provided a poignant example of this jarring transition, paraphrasing a typical interaction a man arrives wanting to help, but within that assistance, he begins to speak of love.

Elaborating in her own words, she said, “Munhu anouya achida kukubatsira, mukubatsira imomo, akutotaura zverudo, handisati ndapedza kupukuta misodzi, zvichiri padhuze kufunga Tatenda.” (“A person comes wanting to help you, within that help, he starts talking about love, I haven’t even finished wiping my tears, it’s still fresh, thinking about Tatenda.”)

In an interview Chikuti revealed that most of the men approaching her are between the ages of 30 and 40.

She outlined the speed at which these proposals emerge, noting, “These ‘Good Samaritans’ are from the age of 30–40 years, some propose love after helping me and some propose love even before delivering the donations.”

This has forced her into a defensive position, leading her to sever contact. “So, I am just cutting communication from such temptations,” she stated.

Expressing her confusion and frustration, Chikuti questioned the fundamental dishonesty of these approaches.

She articulated her dismay, saying, “I do not know why some of these so-called ‘Good Samaritans’ come voluntarily, saying they are willing to help me as a widow yet surprisingly, what they end up demanding is something else.”

Her appeal is now directed toward those with authentic intentions, as she concluded in her interview, “Asi ndongoti vanhu vaMwari ndongokumbira rubatsiro netsigiro yenyu kune vari genuine kwete kune vane zvavari kutsvaga pandiri.”

Chikuti’s experience highlights the unique vulnerabilities faced by grieving widows, who become targets for predation under the guise of charity.

Her public statement serves as both a warning to other women in similar situations and an appeal for respect and genuine community support during a period of profound loss.